There is a term for the experience of the newly converted individual who feels suddenly alone as a Jew. It is “left dripping at the mikvah.” Suddenly the regular meetings with your rabbi end. You are still, forgive the pun, wet behind the ears, but are launched into responsibility for your own Jewish life, practice and participation. I have received emails from converts who felt sad, but uncomfortable asking for “more.” I’ve received emails from Jews by choice that are several years into being Jewish who still don’t feel integrated.
Today I read about this class being offered in Palo Alto at Etz Chayim,
Either Ḥavruta or Loneliness: Intimacy, Vulnerability, and Inclusion in the Beit Midrash
(In-person only)
A thrill of joy ran through me! YES! What an excellent way to draw deeper into your Jewish community. Study together, just as you have been studying all along. Talk about topics of intense meaning, of life choices, relationships, and responsibilities. What better way to get to know others deeply. You’ll make friends who share your interests. They will draw you in. If you don’t have a place to go for Passover, you can tell them. They will find a seat for you. Don’t want to go to services and sit alone; tell them, someone will sit with you.
This teacher is a one session speaker. But I spoke to Amy Bayersdorfer, the Executive Director at Etz Chayim and she said anyone may contact her to explore ways to engage in Adult Education, or other ways to participate at the shul. Amy is very nice and delighted to help anyone get a stronghold in community!
Amy’s contact information is: 650-813-9094 x206 or [email protected]
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