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Viewing the War in Israel as a Jew by Choice

1/17/2024

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I received this email from a Jew by Choice struggling with the news from the Middle East:

​As a convert I have been struggling mightily due to the crisis in Israel and Gaza. I am utterly horrified at what Hamas did, as more and more hateful stories are emerging. The inhumanity of what they did is deeply personal; I can barely read about it anymore. The Israeli response has been more impersonal yet equally horrifying.
 
I wonder if I were not a convert, would I feel differently? A man I know is deeply frightened. He is not observant, but is a Jew. I do not feel as threatened, and I feel angry at the Israeli government for its incomprehensibly inhumane actions; he is not so angry. Is that because I am a convert? Do I not identity as deeply as he does as a Jew, and/or am not as vulnerable as he is because I could deny being a Jew to save my life
 
A huge part of the pain also is that what I cherish about Judaism is being trashed. I don’t know how to hold what I love of Judaism as I see what the Israeli government is doing. Is there is anything that you know of that I could read that might help?

My reply:
you are having the reaction that so many Americans are feeling. It is horror upon horror.  After a brief sympathy for Israel the world’s mood quickly changed. Jewish news anticipated that. It has happened before.  Arab culture does not have the concept of "turning the other cheek" or "the meek shall inherit the earth".  To be weak is to be a fool and Arab culture is a very macho mentality. It is so alien to Americans; we quickly side with whoever we see as the underdog. 
 
I suggest you subscribe to some Israeli media.  There is so little that is getting into American news coverage and next to nothing about what is really going on.  
Try starting with these online news outlets. 
Times of Israel
https://www.timesofisrael.com/
JTA – Jewish Telegraph Agency
https://www.jta.org
 
Try to find Israelis on Facebook, What’s App or Instagram to get a first hand viewpoint. I follow several Black Israelis. In our liberal mindedness, seeing a minority with in a minority may help one to be more open to their words.
 
Isn’t it easy to end the war?
The war would be over in a second if Hamas and Hezbollah would stop bombing Israel - which continues daily, but they won't.  The Hamas charter states that it is dedicated to the destruction of Israel and the death of Jews. There's no compromising with people who only want one thing: for you to be dead.  Are you aware of what "from the river to the sea" means? The river is on one side of Israel, the sea on the other. It means total destruction.  Yes, people are trying to make this sentence seem neutral; but having heard this before, Israelis know it calls for their complete annihilation.
 
It might help you to separate the Gazan people from their overlords, Hamas. Hamas is as brutal to them as they are to everyone else. They shoot Gazans who attempt to get to the aid trucks. A Hamas leader said on TV that the aid trucks are only for the fighters; anyone who tries to steal the food will be killed.  I have tremendous grief for the citizens, but they will not be free until Hamas is gone. I follow a number of Arab Israelis & a couple Arabs and they call out the murders among the Gazan population visited on them by Hamas. If any of them are ever caught, Hamas will kill them too.  We don't see this on American news.  
 
You could read (or listen to the podcast) of The Sin of Moral Equivalence by Sam Harris. Very informative.  
And this video about the changes in the Middle East.
In this video a hostage tells her story.  
 
It is true that most white Americans don't have the inherited PTSD of born Jews. Jews know that entire countries will turn on them and destroy them. Have your ancestors been in that position? Science has revealed that these more subtle emotional memories are inherited just like the color of your hair, not in your genes but in the tissue around the genes.  There has never been a generation of Jews that were not subjected to some horror. I had honestly thought that my children would be the first generation. But, no.
 
I saw a naive young woman on TV say, "I'm a queer for Palestine. I'm sure there are queers in Palestine and I'm here for them."  I thought to myself, I bet there were queers; but they are dead. Homosexuality is punishable by death under Hamas. Period. 
 
I don't know if you have read about the extreme sexual brutality they have used on women - rape and more. I am 100% against rapists. Those are not freedom fighters, they are monsters.  I don't know if you've heard the survivors who talked about hearing women raped and then killed.  Terrorists put a baby in an oven, turned it on and left. The IDF found the remains.  Many Jews are well aware that they could be killed simply for being a Jew – even here in America.  The IDF put together a film that they are showing to a select few on the atrocities. 
 
Another thing about being an American is that we don't know many people serving in our own military. In Israel EVERYONE does.  They are their brothers, sisters, cousins, and sons.  Do you know anyone who has lost loved ones? I do. Get to know some Israelis. One of my friend's sons is identifying the dead Israelis using DNA and other scientific methods - the bodies are beyond recognition - burned, beheaded, dismembered.  When this is happening to your family it's impossible to not be afraid.
 
Meanwhile people who sit safely in America say "ceasefire!"  How? Do you know? Have you ever read Aesop's Fable, Belling the Cat?  It's easy to tell other people what to do as long as you don't have to do it yourself.
 
Did you hold onto what you loved about America while Trump was president and was jailing children without their parents?  The head of a country is not its people. Netanyahu is a bastard and he gets reelected because he plays on the innate fear of the people. What would change if every country in the world suddenly said, Israel has a right to exist and we will not let its enemies destroy it. What if the Arab countries opened their borders and took in their brethren, housed, fed and healed them?  Are you aware that Israel has NOT occupied Gaza since 2005 when they forcibly removed all their citizens from the area?  I was there that summer.  There was tremendous political disagreement, but it got done.  There is NO OCCUPATION.  When Hamas came into control, Egypt built a wall on their border with Gaza and shot anyone trying to enter Egypt from Gaza.  You don't hear about that. 
 
There were Gazans who worked in Israel and on October 7 they called their employers in fear for their lives. One Israeli man told his guys - HIDE. But Hamas found them and killed them. 
A young Gazan man who was interviewed on TV said there is no work in Gaza except to dig the tunnels. He said, "We are digging our own graves. The tunnels collapse on us and we are buried alive."
There are recordings of phone conversations in which Hamas terrorists ask where to get gas and are told to go to the hospital - that's where it's being stored. 
The IDF has found Gazan children's schools and care facilities with booby traps in the toys. I've seen the films. But only on Israeli or BBC sources. The American media doesn't show it. 
 
Would you put down your arms in this hell? I wouldn't. 
 
I hope this isn't too much for you.  I have personally lived in fear. I've lived in hiding and not even for being a Jew.  I believe that people are capable of hurting me.  I can't be dispassionate about this. 
If you identified as Jewish in Gaza they would kill you. They wouldn't care how sympathetic you are. 
 
I understand what you are saying about the horror of children dying. What you may not be able to take in is that Hamas will continue killing Gazans as they see fit.  Are you aware that when Israel drops leaflets (and more actions) to warn Gazans to leave as they will be bombing the area, that Hamas does not allow them to leave and shoots them if they try? Bombed families make for very sympathetic TV stories for Hamas.  
 
When one feels that something is intolerable there is a desperate need to shout STOP!  But what if only one side stops? Is that enough? No, not for the Gazan children.
 
If you can think of a way to turn this around, PLEASE SPEAK UP!  Just saying "ceasefire" isn't sufficient.  So far, no one has a solution, including the USA. Just stopping will simply give Hamas the delight of knowing that their methods are working and they can continue on their path of destruction.  The countries that could bring real pressure to bear on the situation are the local Muslim countries. They are weighing their options because the big ones have figured out that doing business with Israel will bring them greater wealth. But they don't want to appear to support Israel too much. Saudi Arabia, Egypt and the United Arab Emirates are making behind the scenes attempts to create financial partnerships with Israel. Guess what one of the things they want is!?  Tourism!!! From Israelis!!! I know two Jews who have been advising them. 
 
Try to grasp how helpless the Israelis are.  Since no one will help them, the general feeling is: Between the choice of being a pitied dead Jew or a reviled living Jew, I'll take life.
 
I think in your despair is a hope/belief that if Israel ceased responding to the bombings and terror attacks of Hamas going on in Israel daily, that magically, all would suddenly be well for the Gazan people. It's just not that simple. 
 
One thing that I've read over and over again is that the Jews are resilient, that we will stick together and the Jews, as a People, will live on. This is such a moving message in my mind – how, a people that has been persecuted for thousands of years goes on instead of assimilating. It's not an individualistic viewpoint, as Americans have, but a communal one. Am Israel Chai.  Here's an article from JTA that expresses this concept very powerfully. 
 
Does this clarify things at all? My dad was a conscientious objector in WWII and committed to the belief that violence solves nothing. But when he spoke to a Holocaust survivor he had nothing to offer him. When someone desires only your death, there is no conversation to be had.
 
The Bay Area is a bubble - here there is a tremendous population of "liberal" anti-Semites.  An Oakland rabbi who returned recently from volunteering in Israel said that Israelis, hearing where he was from, asked, "Are you OK?"  Wow, we're world renowned for anti-Semitism.  Do we dare to refuse to go along with this massive majority?


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The Timeline of Jewish Mourning

11/20/2019

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This Timeline of Jewish Mourning is from My Jewish Learning and is incredibly useful. It provides the "Key Jewish milestones after the loss of a loved one."
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Jewish tradition defines several stages in the process of mourning, which correspond quite well to the modern understanding of the emotional process of grief.

Read on to learn about the eight stages of Jewish mourning.

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The ritual of Sh’mira

7/12/2019

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Previously, we posted about attending a shiva with guidelines from Rabbi Helfand of Peninsula Sinai. Rabbi Helfand offers additional information about the ritual of Sh'mira, or Shimera, which means guard or watch. It is the Jewish practice of never leaving a body alone; rather we sit with the deceased until they are buried. Here is what Rabbi Helfand teaches:

One of the most important mitzvot that we can perform as an act of k'vod ha-met, giving honor and dignity to the deceased, is the mitzvah of sh'mira, sitting with the deceased before burial.  Since the funeral will not take place until such and such a time Jews from the community take a one or two hour shift to sit with the body of the deceased.
 
What do you do during sh'mira?
 
Traditionally, we use this time to recite Psalms, other prayers or just sit quietly as a way of bringing God's presence and our own into the sacred space and asking God to watch over and protect the deceased person.  This is also a beautiful way to make sure that this person is never alone between when she/he died and the funeral. Please refrain from using electronics during this time.  Most importantly, sh’mira is a time where we try to have kavannah, intentionality for the sacred act that we are performing, be it praying, reflecting on the person’s life, or being present in silence.
 


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Attending Shiva - some guidelines

6/2/2019

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Recently Rabbi Cory Helfand of Peninsula Sinai Congregation sent out a very useful guide to attending shiva - especially for first timers. He gave me permission to share it.







​Attending Shiva
 
Shiva calls can be hard to make, especially if it is your first time. The information below aims to help prepare you to make a shiva call. Learn how to give comfort to Jewish relatives or friends in mourning.
 
Enter the shiva house quietly
Mourners are not expected to greet people at the door, and you don't want to interrupt if the service has already begun. Give a quiet knock, and then quietly walk inside the house. Please do not ring the doorbell.
 

Enter the room of the mourner quietly
The best way to greet the mourner is to sit down quietly near him or her. There is no expectation of a "greeting" between the mourner and the shiva caller. But if you want to give the mourner a hug or handshake, then you can do this. However, try to avoid everyday lines like "How are you?"
 
Respond to the mourner
If the mourner speaks to you, respond. But if they are quiet, then it is okay just to sit quietly in the room. It is tiring for the mourner to talk all day long, and he or she might prefer to just sit quietly in your company. If the mourner wants to talk, spend time listening and if the space presents itself, talk about the person who has passed away. If the mourner feels like talking, you can tell stories and share memories about the person who passed away with the mourner. Everyone mourns differently, and shiva is the time to be present for the mourner in whatever way is most meaningful to them. 
 
Food and drinks
Mourners are not expected to be hosts, but those who are close to the mourners might offer some refreshments to shiva callers. It is acceptable if you want to bring some refreshments to the home - nuts, dried fruit, cakes, casseroles ... - for the bereaved family, but remember to respect the level of kosher observance of the shiva home.
 
Traditional Statement of Comfort in Judaism
The following statement of comfort is traditionally said to mourners - in Hebrew or English - just before leaving the shiva house.
 
May God comfort you among the other mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Ha-Makom y'nachem et'chem b'toch sha'ar aveilei Tzion v'Yerushalayim.
 
Leave the shiva house quietly
Again, mourners are not expected to be hosts and see people to the door. Some people say the traditional line above, nod to the bereaved, and then leave quietly. Others give the mourners a hug or hand shake, and walk out quietly.

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A Rabbi Reflects on Death, Shiva and Community

6/2/2016

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Rabbi Milder's father died recently and he sent this message to his congregants. In it he uses the traditional title for God at the time of a loss - Judge of Truth (מבורך הוא דיין האמת). This blessing can be confusing. Learn more about it here. Having a congregation and a tradition - a predictable process on which to lean is tremendously helpful at times of grief. Seek these out for yourself.

Blessed Is the Judge of Truth

Thank you to the many congregants who extended condolences to Janet and me on the death of my father, Dr. Benjamin Milder.
I have experienced the deep wisdom and sensitivity of Jewish tradition surrounding death and mourning. The dignity of the funeral, the warmth and affection expressed in the eulogies offered by my parents' rabbis, the participation of my family in the burial, the comfort of seeing friends, acquaintances and even total strangers during the days we sat Shiva--all of it created meaning that defeats the meaninglessness we associate with death.
I was grateful simply to be a mourner. That was possible precisely because my parents were members of a congregation, and lifelong members, at that. In fact, at the time of his death at the age of 100, my father was the longest-tenured member of Congregation Shaare Emeth in St. Louis.
We live our lives in the denial of death, as the philosopher Ernest Becker said. Even when death touches those closest to us, the temptation is there to push it aside, to compartmentalize, to "move on."
Judaism is life-affirming, yet honest and realistic about death. It is precisely because we love others, and love life, that Judaism acknowledges death--not morbidly, and not excessively, but without euphemism and without avoidance.
To mourn, to sit Shiva, is healthy, not in the emotional or psychological sense (though that, too), but in the spiritual sense. Shiva is the opportunity to say: Thank you, God, for the life of this one whom we loved. And thank you for giving us the strength to affirm the value of life, limited as it must be.

Rabbi Larry Milder

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New-to-Judaism mourner didn’t receive needed support

5/12/2016

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This question was sent to the Mixed and Matched column in the J-weekly.


I am a recent convert and a single mother. My sister died recently. When I got the news, I was paralyzed and didn’t know what to do. I had been told that once the word of my sister’s passing got out, people would flock to my door with food, comforting visits and offers to watch my child so I could have time to grieve, but nothing happened. I went to work and kept up with my housework. My rabbi offered to help, but I really didn’t know what to ask for. And actually, I’m not good at asking for help. It felt like people were pretty hands off. People did attend the service, but there was no food since we held the shiva at the temple. My shiva experience could have benefited from more support. What should I know for next time? — Still grieving


Dear Grieving: Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. I absolutely understand your paralysis upon learning of your sister’s death. The process of shiva, shloshim and the first year of mourning were set up because the rabbis recognized that we cannot function at times of deep sorrow.
Being a recent convert does not solely explain your experience. This could happen to anyone who is new to Jewish communal life or is not well embedded in a Jewish community.

I did some research to get a better understanding of what is happening on the “other” side of the shiva question. I called several synagogues and asked what their process is. This is what I learned.
Upon learning of a death, the clergy makes a call to the bereaved. The rabbi is responsible for asking the mourner what is needed. The clergy arranges for shiva and for any assistance the mourners need — meals, rides, etc. Due to privacy concerns (in my opinion, this has been greatly and sadly inflated in our culture), the clergy says very little to the members. That means that you need to be specific about wanting congregants to be informed. Many, but not all, shuls send an email alerting members to a death. Sadly, what I see is that we have an American (private, autonomous, even secretive) approach to a Jewish process — mourning in community.
Mourners are best served if they have friends in the congregation who are not afraid to ignore those privacy barriers and show up to clean house, do laundry, bring food or just hold hands. It is a mitzvah to care for mourners, to bring them meals and to help around the home. Don’t hesitate to ask for people to fulfill this commandment.
I have heard from some people that they wanted to give their grieving friend “space.” Space for what? To be alone and miserable? Certainly, there are mourners who don’t want to see anyone, but I think your situation is more common. Most mourners don’t know what to ask for, don’t know what they need and want someone else to manage things. Sometimes the best thing that a friend can do is to come over and sit with the mourner, maybe take her or him for a walk to the end of the block and back.
Because we live among mortals and someone is bound to die, you need to be better prepared for future tragedies. You need to set things up so that this doesn’t happen again. I suggest that you make an appointment with your rabbi. Say up front that it is a bereavement conversation. Then tell him or her what you’ve told me and feel free to share what I’ve told you. Also, you need to become more connected with fellow congregants. Talk to the rabbi about how you can become more involved. Make time to deepen your friendships. Go out for coffee or invite someone over. Be honest and say that you need company as you recover from your loss.

You also need to tell your clergy that, for future reference, you aren’t good at asking for help and probably wouldn’t know what to ask for anyway. It is fine to say, “When the next time comes around, treat me as someone who is mute with grief and may need more than I’m able to express.” Tell clergy and friends what you would have liked to have received this past time and what you may need in the future. It will be good for you to say it out loud and for them to receive a concrete request from you.

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The Mitzvah of Making a Minyan for Shiva

1/7/2016

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In times of mourning there often feels like we are helpless to comfort the mourners. Judaism provides a very tangible way to support the bereaved. It can be as simple as showing up. It is a mitzvah to attend a shiva. Rabbi Creditor of Netivot Shalom sent this tender letter to his congregation recently.

You have likely noticed that our community is enduring a large number of losses. Each one is a universe, and every mourner is unique. We, as a community, do this mitzvah right: we show up for each other. 

If you haven't attended a shiva minyan before, please consider doing so. We will have simultaneous minyanim of comfort. That is a mitzvah we wish weren't necessary, one we take very seriously. It is less about the words than the quiet presence each one of us brings to a Shiva home. 

Some members have begun learning how to lead Shiva minyanim. Please contact me if you'd like to learn as well. And, if leading isn't your next step, please make every effort to be there for the members of our shul family who are enduring a loss. We will, unfortunately, all be there. We can count on each other. 

Please support our shul in making every minyan strong.
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Sitting Shiva as a Jew by Choice

7/1/2015

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The Hebrew word "shiva" means "seven", and the official shiva period is seven days. The day of the funeral is counted as the first day of shiva, even though the practice does not begin until after the mourners arrive at the designated location following the funeral. On day seven, shiva generally ends in the morning, following services. On Shabbat during the week of shiva, no formal mourning takes place, but the day is counted as one of the seven.  (You can read a detailed description from Chabad here and one from Reform Judaism here. 

We asked people to share their experiences of sitting shiva. Below are some responses.

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Looking back I can see that when my sister died it was the fact that there was a proscribed process that fell into place and that my community fulfilled their role of caring for me that got me through.  A few months later I asked my husband, "was there food at the shiva?"  I had this sudden worry that I had forgotten to feed people. But here's the thing, when you're in mourning, you aren't supposed to feed people; they are supposed to feed you.  "Yes, honey, there was lots of food.  People brought a lot," he replied.


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In my case my dad passed away while I was still going through the conversion process. Still, keeping the rules of shiva, shloshim and kaddish helped me cope with the situation pretty well. But, above all, having my friends and my community around me taking care of me and helping me go through the different stages of mourning helped me a lot and left me with a sense of belonging and of gratitude hard to explain to outsiders. Guess this was my first strong experience of what converting means: not just believing or behaving in a certain way, but also becoming part of the Am Israel, part of a bigger Me called the Jewish Family.




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About an hour before the service for my sister, I really wanted to cancel it.  Felt like I was gonna throw up, just out of nerves and misery.  My sister wasn't Jewish and it felt weird to have my long-standing Jewish life crashing into my non-Jewish family and past life.  Ended up feeling deeply grateful and comforted, and glad I went through with it, but I sure was uncomfortable for a few hours.

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I have just returned from my grandmother's funeral. In the collective experiences of converts, we do a lot of thinking and talking about dealing with “the Christmas season”, but do fairly little in terms of funeral traditions. I would be so very curious to hear other converts experiences of and reflections on participating in family end-of-life issues.

I have an admittedly skewed view on this, as I have connected with Judaism through working with the Chevrah Kaddisha (the “holy society” tasked with carrying out the various rituals and traditions around end of life). As a result, I likely have more familiarity with traditional Jewish practices than most.

I've spent the past 6 days with my parents and aunts and uncles planning and attending a funeral for my grandmother, who was a life-long Methodist. Over the course of the whole process, little things jumped out at me. I found myself very uncomfortable with the prospect of an open casket, but also realized that it was what my family members needed to support their grieving. In the funeral service, I asked myself “Should I recite the Lord's Prayer, (which I know by heart), because it would cause my grandmother so much pain to know I didn't?” At the cemetery, I found myself wanting to hang around, to be present for the actual lowering of the casket, and to shovel some dirt on top (which is certainly a very foreign custom to both my family and the cemetery staff in rural Oklahoma).

I was more acutely aware of my Jewishness – and more importantly, my non-Jewish origins – over the past week than I have been in a long time. It was an added stress on an already stressful time. All in all, I think I navigated it fairly well. I ended up avoiding the room whenever the casket was open. I arranged with the funeral home to sit with the (closed) casket the night before the funeral, in keeping with the Jewish tradition of Shmira. In the end, I found myself saying the Lord's Prayer in honor of my grandmother, but skipping the Affirmation of Faith. In exchange, I plan to say Kaddish for my grandmother and mark her yartzeit, even though she would have been uncomfortable with the thought of being honored in that way.

I understand that, much like the whole Christmas question, each person must find a balance. But the whole thing got me thinking about how I was going to navigate future funerals– especially those I was more intimately involved in planning. I would just be very curious to hear from others how they balanced their needs as a (Jewish) mourner with the beliefs and wishes of the deceased non-Jewish family members?







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