My experience was less than "normal." I had attended a few services and met a few Rabbis, but didn't feel a strong sense of connection. On a whim I chose to go to shul that no one had recommended, but ended up being the most perfect situation I could ask for. The Rabbi was so welcoming and helped me navigate the service. Afterward he properly introduced himself to me and invited me to set-up a meeting with him. His approach was always, "This is about you, not me. If it is ever not the right path, we can stop. I lose nothing if you chose this isn't for you." We talked, read books, and made plans to attend holiday celebrations. It was a loose form of structure and it really worked for me. The congregation was small, and everyone was so loving and supportive. It was like coming home every time I was there.
5.5 months into the process my Rabbi informed me that he was moving. He felt like I was ready, but I didn't feel like I had the community I needed just yet, so we chose to find me a new Rabbi to complete the process. I met briefly with my new Rabbi to ensure it was a good fit, and was on my own for another month-and-a-half before we were able to meet again. At our second meeting, as we were talking, he asked me, "What are you waiting for?" It was clear to him as well that I was ready. So, 6-ish months and 2 Rabbis later, here I am!
5.5 months into the process my Rabbi informed me that he was moving. He felt like I was ready, but I didn't feel like I had the community I needed just yet, so we chose to find me a new Rabbi to complete the process. I met briefly with my new Rabbi to ensure it was a good fit, and was on my own for another month-and-a-half before we were able to meet again. At our second meeting, as we were talking, he asked me, "What are you waiting for?" It was clear to him as well that I was ready. So, 6-ish months and 2 Rabbis later, here I am!
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